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		<title>Going on Summer Holiday!</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Boy am I excited about this.  Haven&#8217;t had a holiday in 2 years!  We&#8217;re off to the Far East for some much needed R&#38;R.  Don&#8217;t know if I&#8217;ll be blogging from there, we&#8217;ll see.
Either way hope you have a great summer and talk to you soon.
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Boy am I excited about this.  Haven&#8217;t had a holiday in 2 years!  We&#8217;re off to the Far East for some much needed R&amp;R.  Don&#8217;t know if I&#8217;ll be blogging from there, we&#8217;ll see.</p>
<p>Either way hope you have a great summer and talk to you soon.</p>
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		<title>Fourteen Surprising Secrets to Amazing Employee Motivation</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 17 Jul 2010 07:48:13 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Suhail</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[For some business owners and managers, the biggest problem they face is employee motivation.  And let me tell you, it&#8217;s something you have to work hard on, and continue to work hard on.  But when you get in right, it REALLY pays off.
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div id="attachment_2654" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 339px"><a href="http://www.suhailalgosaibi.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/Happy-Team.jpg"><img class="size-medium wp-image-2654" title="Happy Team" src="http://www.suhailalgosaibi.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/Happy-Team-300x200.jpg" alt="Falakonians during our last Big Bang event." width="329" height="219" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Falakonians during our last Big Bang event.</p></div>
<p>For some business owners and managers, the biggest problem they face is employee motivation.  And let me tell you, it&#8217;s something you have to work hard on, and continue to work hard on.  But when you get in right, it REALLY pays off.</p>
<p>In my opinion, it&#8217;s definitely worth the time and effort to have happy and motivated people working for you.  For one thing, it&#8217;s the right thing to do.  Further, when you have happy, motivated people working for you they become more productive, meaning more work output and thus more sales and profits.  Also, they&#8217;ll end up treating your customers much better, leading to better customer service and customer experiences, which leads to more repeat business and more business through word of mouth, and thus more sales and more profits.  So really, having motivated staff is good business.</p>
<p>And the opposite is true.  When you have demotivated staff working for you, they can do a lot of damage.  <a href="http://aliaalmoayed.wordpress.com/" target="_blank">My wife</a> recently told me how she went to a store in the Aali mall, and heard an employee speaking loudly on the phone about how they are being mistreated and underpaid.  Ask yourself, are you 100% sure that your staff is not doing that?</p>
<p>About 10 years ago I went into a relative&#8217;s business, and within the first 5 minutes one staff member was talking badly about my relative.  When I told him I was related to the owner his face reddened and he try to squirm out the awkward situation he had just put himself into.  It was shameful really!  Whatever you do, <strong>don&#8217;t</strong> assume that your staff won&#8217;t talk badly about you with others &#8211; even customers &#8211; if you&#8217;re not working hard on keeping them happy.</p>
<p>Right, time to share some powerful secrets!  Ready? Here goes, 14 secrets to keeping your staff motivated:</p>
<h3>1) Hire right:</h3>
<p>Everything starts with hiring the right person to begin with.  Entrepreneurs and business owners (even corporate managers) are so busy sometimes that they won&#8217;t give this step the proper attention it deserves.  Hiring the wrong person will cost you dearly.  It will cost you in terms of effort and time waisted, but it&#8217;ll also have a capital cost.  It&#8217;s estimated that the cost of mis-hiring costs an employer 10 times the employee&#8217;s annual salary.</p>
<p>So, what should you look for?  Look for people who are already self-motivated.  The last thing you want to do is hire a depressed, emotional energy vampire.  You do this by conducting a very thorough interview.  If the candidate has a sad sense about him or her, don&#8217;t hire them!  Also, look out for victim-type explanations or justifications about their previous job.  Things like &#8220;you know I tried to do this and that, but they didn&#8217;t let me.&#8221;  &#8220;Oh, I&#8217;ve been really unlucky in the past, all the employers I&#8217;ve had were bad…&#8221;  Make sure you know exactly what you&#8217;re looking for in an employee so that you recognise it when you see  it.</p>
<h3>2) Train!</h3>
<p>I&#8217;m still surprised by how many people don&#8217;t take training seriously.  Not only will investing in good training allow your employees to do their job better, but it will make them feel important.  They get a feeling of &#8220;the owner/company is really taking the time to train me!  It means they value me.  Yay!  I&#8217;m going to work hard at this new job!&#8221;  Get my point?  Ideally, you should have a job description or profile, as well as a training or operations manual.</p>
<h3>3)  Give them a special name:</h3>
<p>I hate the words &#8220;employee&#8221; and &#8220;staff.&#8221;  They&#8217;re dry and implies and emotional disconnection between people and their jobs.  At <a href="http://careeratfalak.com/" target="_blank">Falak Enterprises</a> we call employees &#8220;Team Members&#8221;.  It might sound really corny, trite even, but it works.    And we go further than that.  All Falak Enterprises employees are called Falakonians.  I got the idea from <a href="http://www.zappos.com/" target="_blank">Zappos.com</a>, where they call their staff Zapponians.  At Chili&#8217;s, employees are called Chilli Heads.</p>
<p>In one of his audio programmes, <a href="http://www.tonyrobbins.com/" target="_blank">Anthony Robins</a> says that human beings have 6 needs.  One of which is the need to belong.  You can give your employees a stronger sense of connection if they feel that they are part of an exclusive club.  In one of my Team meetings someone was saying how challenging a task was, and my response was &#8220;hey, were Falakonians!  We can do this!&#8221;  Again, I know it sounds really corny, and you probably consider yourself <em>way</em> too professional to do this, but trust me it works.  And it&#8217;s lots of fun too!  They&#8217;ll love you for it!</p>
<h3>4) Treat everyone with dignity and respect:</h3>
<p>I get shocked when I see nice, decent people&#8217;s personalities transform when they talk to their staff.  I guess it&#8217;s part of the Arab and Asian culture to treat staff almost like servants.  If you don&#8217;t like anyone shouting and yelling at you, then don&#8217;t do it with your staff.  It&#8217;s that simple.  Little things like smiling, saying please and thank you make all the difference.  Remember that your staff will get their cues from you (whether you like it or not, and whether you mean it or not) and if you&#8217;re nasty, unkind, distanced or mean, they&#8217;ll do the same with each other.  And more worryingly, they&#8217;ll do it with your customers!</p>
<p>Treat them like decent human beings.  With dignity and respect.  When in doubt, but yourself in their shoes and ask yourself how you would like to be treated.</p>
<h3>5) Explain the reason why:</h3>
<p>You&#8217;ve probably been in your business/industry for a long time, and you know it inside out, and things are extremely obvious to you.  But don&#8217;t assume that it&#8217;s the same for your staff.  When you go through the training, or give instructions, explain why things need to get done.  Your staff are much more likely to do it if they know why it needs to be done, otherwise they might be tempted to skip it.  So from now onwards add something like &#8220;the reason for this is…&#8221; or &#8220;I need this done, because…&#8221;  They&#8217;ll feel much more aligned with what you are doing.</p>
<h3>6) Be loyal first:</h3>
<p>Here&#8217;s a principal I try to live by (and you may have heard me mention once or twice); whatever you want from someone, give it first.  So if you want loyalty from your staff, show them loyalty first.  Is there a problem someone has that you can help out with?  Maybe one of your Team Members just needs someone to listen to them?  You could offer some advice.  Whenever possible, I try to show loyalty to my Team Members before expecting any loyalty from them.  Whatever you do, don&#8217;t take their loyalty for granted.</p>
<p>Do you visit them in hospital when they are sick?  Do you ask about their kids and family?  Do you give them slack if they are going through a hard time? Do you even know if they&#8217;re going though a hard time?  Remember, <em>loyalty must be earned</em>!</p>
<h3>7) Communicate:</h3>
<p>This is another biggy, and a lot of people get this wrong.  Remember, the foundation of a good relationship is good communication.  Entrepreneurs  &#8211; and again, managers in general &#8211; are often so busy that they make all kinds of plans, but neglect to tell their staff about them.  They&#8217;ll even do special marketing campaigns and promotions and not tell their staff!  It&#8217;s crazy!</p>
<p>Hold regular staff meetings, and also communicate by email and video broadcast.  I particularly like video because that way I can communicate with lots of people without having to arrange large meetings, which are logistically not easy to set up (that&#8217;s not to say you shouldn&#8217;t do them from time to time).</p>
<p>At Falak, I have a short, standing only daily huddle with my Executive Team.  They in turn have daily huddles with their subordinates.  That way, any significant news travels up and down the company in a maximum of 24 hours.  I also have 2 weekly meetings with my executive Team where we discuss things in more detail.  Each Falak location Team Leader has a weekly meeting with their Team in which all aspects of the business are discussed, and where some training is conducted as well.</p>
<p>In addition, I have a monthly dinner with my Leadership Team, where each time a different person chooses the venue.  This way I get to know them better, outside the work environment.  We sometimes talk about business, and sometimes we don&#8217;t.  Also, I have a monthly lunch with a random selection of our front line Team Members, without their immediate managers.  That way they can talk freely if they feel they want to share something with me directly.  These monthly lunches have proven to be invaluable in running my business.</p>
<p>Finally, I encourage all Team Members to email me directly if they have any issues or problems that they feel they want to communicate with me directly.</p>
<h3>8 ) Take a personal interest in their lives:</h3>
<p>Do you know your employees&#8217; hobbies and interests?  What do you know about their families?  Where do they live?  For expats, do you know which state or province they come from?  Show an interest in what&#8217;s happening in their personal lives &#8211; without being too nosey.  If you feel they don&#8217;t want to open up too much, then don&#8217;t be pushy.  At least your being open and approachable from your side.</p>
<h3>9) Fire the bad ones &#8211; fast!</h3>
<p>I&#8217;ve made the mistake more than once of keeping bad apples too long.  If you have people that are bad at their job, lazy, mean, or rude, fire them!  If you don&#8217;t, it will affect staff morale throughout the company.  if you have a bad apple in the group, speak with this person and give them honest but respectful feedback.  Be specific in the feedback that you&#8217;re giving them.</p>
<p>Give them the chance to rectify their behaviour and/or performance.  Coach them.  Remember they might have worked in a completely different work environment/culture and they may only have been behaving in a way that was considered normal in their previous work place.  Explain what they did wrong and what you expect from them in the future.  If they improve good, if not, out they go.  But whatever you do, don&#8217;t let a toxic person stay too long in your company, no matter how good they are at what they do.</p>
<p>I learnt this lesson the hard way.  I can think of at least three people whom I should have given the boot much earlier than I did.  I now know better.</p>
<h3>10)  Set expectations and make procedures clear:</h3>
<p>It can be really demoralising if you did something wrong and you didn&#8217;t even know that it was wrong, because no one told you.  When you have a new employee, some sort of orientation programme &#8211; or the very least an orientation chat &#8211; explaining how things are done in your company, and what your expectations are, is in order.  A rule book would be great.  That way, everyone knows what they can, and cannot do.  Whatever you do, don&#8217;t admonish someone for doing something that you didn&#8217;t clarify your expectations about.</p>
<p>If there are no written procedures, and you punish people as you go along, you&#8217;ll have some pretty demotivated people working for you.  They won&#8217;t do their job properly and won&#8217;t tell you if they did something wrong.  It&#8217;ll also demotivate them, and they&#8217;ll be open to other job offers from other companies.</p>
<h3>11) Hold special events:</h3>
<p>Most companies have an annual event, if they have any events at all.  I make a point of having a quarterly event for our Team.  One of them is our <a href="http://www.suhailalgosaibi.com/2010/05/13/the-falak-big-bang-video/" target="_blank">Big Bang</a> event.  During our Big Bang, we close all our locations, and dedicate two full days to our Team.  We bring in outside experts to conduct training for our Team Members, and have lots of games and fun.  The effect on Team morale is magical.</p>
<h3>12) Recognition and rewards:</h3>
<p>If someone did something well, make sure to recognise them for it.  And let the rest of your employees know about it.  Don&#8217;t underestimate the incredible power of a thank you card, or looking someone in the eye and saying &#8220;Well done!  Thank you,&#8221; or &#8220;good job.&#8221;  Whenever I sign an overtime cheque for a Team Member, I make sure to add a small Post-it note thanking the Falakonian for their extra effort.</p>
<p>We have quarterly targets for our Team Members, and when they hit the targets we celebrate and recognise everyone for their effort, and hand award certificates.  The certificate might not cost much, but they show your employees that you care about them.</p>
<p>At the Big Bang I give out custom-made awards to members of my Leadership Team whom I think deserve them.  We humans have an innate need to be recognised for our efforts.  We crave acknowledgment, so go ahead and give your staff the acknowledgment they need.</p>
<h3>13) Empower them:</h3>
<p>Let your staff make day-to-day decisions on their own without referring back to you.  When you empower them it says &#8220;I respect you and trust you enough to make decisions.  I value you.&#8221;  If you don&#8217;t it says &#8220;I think you&#8217;re not trust worthy enough, or not intelligent enough to make decisions.&#8221;</p>
<p>I once had a problem in a Japanese restaurant in a hotel, which the waitress could not solve.  She had to call her manager.  The manager was also not empowered to make the decision.  She had to call the Food and Beverage Manager on his mobile, who finally made a decision.  They made me wait 20 minutes.  I was really annoyed.  Empowering your staff is not only good for their motivation, but it&#8217;s also good customer service.</p>
<p>At the Ritz-Carlton, employees can spend up to $2,000 per day, per customer to solve a problem.  At Falak, Falakonians are empowered to spend up to a month&#8217;s worth of membership (at either <a href="http://www.dreambodycentre.com/" target="_blank">DBC</a> or <a href="http://www.zendobahrain.com/" target="_blank">Zen-Do</a>) without referring to anyone.</p>
<p>Be warned, before empowering you must make sure to train well, and have terms, conditions and policies clearly explained.</p>
<h3>14) Use and enforce your mission and values:</h3>
<p>I&#8217;m a believer in mission and values, but paradoxically, as a consultant I often advice clients against them, because I know they won&#8217;t reinforce them.  If you have a mission that is not reinforced on a regular basis it will backfire and make your employees cynical, &#8220;We aim to be the leading service provider of ________ in our industry, yeah right!  You can&#8217;t even take good care of your staff!&#8221; their thinking might go.</p>
<p>If you&#8217;re going to have a mission statement and values, reinforce them daily, or at the very least weekly.  If not, dump the mission and values.  There&#8217;s nothing worse than having a framed statement  hanging on the wall that no one believes in.  You know, contradictory to what you hear in business school or from some experts, it&#8217;s okay not to have a mission statement.</p>
<h2>But my Situation is different…</h2>
<p>I can almost hear someone&#8217;s brain saying &#8220;yeah, but my situation is different, because________.&#8221;  Let me tell you, your situation is not different.  These things work in <em><strong>any</strong></em> business.  Also, their not just done in big corporations.  I used to do most of this stuff when I had just two people working for me.</p>
<p>I highly recommend the book <em>How to Win Friends and Influence People</em>, it&#8217;s a great reference point on how to communicate better with people, and to motivate others.  It&#8217;s a great classic.  You can listen to a radio interview I did on the book <a href="http://www.suhailalgosaibi.com/2010/05/28/how-to-win-friends-and-influence-people-krazy-kevin-interview-16/" target="_blank">here</a>, and see a book review I did <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HP9eX06xyM8" target="_blank">here</a>.</p>
<p>Well, that&#8217;s all for now my friend.  Go forth and implement!  If you&#8217;ve not done so already, remember to sign up for my FREE, weekly marketing and entrepreneurship course at <a href="http://www.radicalmarketing.com/" target="_blank">RadicalMarketing.com</a>.  When you signed up you&#8217;ll also get email alerts whenever I write a business post like this one.</p>
<p>Thanks for taking the time to read this and talk to you soon.</p>
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		<title>The End of The Manual Gear Box?</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 15 Jul 2010 08:29:44 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Suhail</dc:creator>
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I don&#8217;t change cars very often.  They seem to last a long time with me.  But for the last few months I&#8217;ve been considering buying a new car.  My Golf 4motion is getting a bit old.  I never really had much time to do any research to see what&#8217;s [...]]]></description>
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<p>I don&#8217;t change cars very often.  They seem to last a long time with me.  But for the last few months I&#8217;ve been considering buying a new car.  My Golf 4motion is getting a bit old.  I never really had much time to do any research to see what&#8217;s around.  I used to be a car fanatic in my teens and early 20&#8217;s, but now I&#8217;m really out of date when it comes to cars.</p>
<p>I got really excited when I heard that VW are revealing a replacement for the Golf R32!  The <a href="http://www.evo.co.uk/carreviews/evocarreviews/247864/volkswagen_golf_r_road_test.html" target="_blank">Golf R</a>, a 260 hp hatchback monster, cool!  So I went to the showroom yesterday and had a look at some photos and to get some basic price info. I was saddened to hear that VW no longer offer a manual gear box!</p>
<p>I was almost heartbroken.  Since I got my driver&#8217;s license in 1990 the majority of cars I&#8217;ve owned were manual.  I really don&#8217;t enjoy driving automatic cars.  The sales guy mentioned that they all have a &#8220;new&#8221; type of gear box (DSG I think) which has dual clutch something something…</p>
<p>Apparently, you don&#8217;t feel like you&#8217;re driving an automatic, and it feels almost exactly like a manual.  And it seems that&#8217;s the direction most car companies are going in.  Looks like the manual gear box will be a thing of the past in the next few years, just like hard-copy books!</p>
<p>Oh well… can&#8217;t stop progress I guess.  I&#8217;ll sure miss the active driving.</p>
<p>I&#8217;ll let you know if I get the car in the end…</p>
<p>Talk soon.</p>
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		<title>Announcing The DreamBody Competition 1 Winner!!</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 13 Jul 2010 09:56:02 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Suhail</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[We just finished a press conference this morning where we announced the winner of our first ever DreamBody Competition!  I&#8217;m very proud to announce that 37-year-old structural engineer Simon Bromyard has won!
Simon worked really hard on getting his DreamBody.  He attended 5, 6, 7 up to 11 times per week.  He lost over 11 kg [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div id="attachment_2609" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 381px"><a href="http://www.suhailalgosaibi.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/Press-conference.jpg"><img class="size-large wp-image-2609" title="Press conference" src="http://www.suhailalgosaibi.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/Press-conference-1024x768.jpg" alt="The press conference that was held this morning.  From left Mark Salvador, Suhail, Simon Bromyard and Saba Saleem" width="371" height="277" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">At the press conference that was held this morning.  From left Mark Salvador, Suhail, Simon Bromyard and Saba Saleem</p></div>
<p>We just finished a press conference this morning where we announced the winner of our first ever <a href="http://www.dreambodycompetition.com/" target="_blank">DreamBody Competition</a>!  I&#8217;m very proud to announce that 37-year-old structural engineer Simon Bromyard has won!</p>
<div id="attachment_2610" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 235px"><a href="http://www.suhailalgosaibi.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/SimonSuhail.jpg"><img class="size-medium wp-image-2610" title="Simon&amp;Suhail" src="http://www.suhailalgosaibi.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/SimonSuhail-225x300.jpg" alt="Presenting Simon with his cheque for BD 1,001" width="225" height="300" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Presenting Simon with his cheque for BD 1,001</p></div>
<p>Simon worked really hard on getting his DreamBody.  He attended 5, 6, 7 up to 11 times per week.  He lost over 11 kg and 4.5 inches off his waist.  Well done guy.  Here are his before and after photos:</p>
<div id="attachment_2616" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 464px"><a href="http://www.suhailalgosaibi.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/Simon-photos.jpg"><img class="size-full wp-image-2616" title="Simon photos" src="http://www.suhailalgosaibi.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/Simon-photos.jpg" alt="Simon Broyard before and after the DreamBody Competition" width="454" height="612" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Simon Broyard before and after the DreamBody Competition</p></div>
<p>What a remarkable difference, right?  Simon received a cheque for BD 1,001, which he said he&#8217;d give to his wife <img src='http://www.suhailalgosaibi.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />   (Good like trying to cash the giant cardboard cheque)</p>
<p>Here&#8217;s an interview that was conducted with Simon the day before yesterday:</p>
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<p>I have to say it was not an easy decision.  The judging committee sat for a long time trying to make sure the right candidate is chosen.  It came down to Simon and former GDN journalist Mohammed Al-Garf.  Though they both worked hard and got very good results, we went for Simon, due to his superhuman effort in attending the <a href="http://www.dreambodycentre.com/" target="_blank">DBC</a>.</p>
<p>I want to publicly thank Mohammed for the amazing transformation that he achieved, and I hope he will have the chance to win future a competition.  Well done guy and congrats on your amazing results.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.suhailalgosaibi.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/Al-Garf-photos.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-2624" title="Al-Garf photos" src="http://www.suhailalgosaibi.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/Al-Garf-photos.jpg" alt="Al-Garf photos" width="420" height="595" /></a></p>
<p>I also want to acknowledge all the participants who worked hard to win this competition.  Well done everyone and congrats on your results.  Well done once again Simon and alf mabrook!  The next <a href="http://www.dreambodycompetition.com" target="_blank">competition</a> is starting in September.  Make sure to be part of it!</p>
<p>Talk soon.</p>
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		<title>The Magical Science of Influence</title>
		<link>http://www.suhailalgosaibi.com/2010/07/11/the-magical-science-of-influence/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 12 Jul 2010 06:51:24 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Suhail</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Welcome to Krazy Kevin radio interview No. 23!  Wow, 23 interviews, can you believe it?  This week&#8217;s topic was a discussion of some of the principles of the amazing book, Influence:  Science and Practice (5th Edition), by Dr. Robert Cialdini.

This book is a must for anyone who is serious about influencing or persuading others.  [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Welcome to Krazy Kevin radio interview No. 23!  Wow, 23 interviews, can you believe it?  This week&#8217;s topic was a discussion of some of the principles of the amazing book, <em><a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0205609996?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=suhaalgosradi-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=9325&amp;creativeASIN=0205609996">Influence:  Science and Practice (5th Edition)</a><img style="border: medium none ! important; margin: 0px ! important;" src="http://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=suhaalgosradi-20&amp;l=as2&amp;o=1&amp;a=0205609996" border="0" alt="" width="1" height="1" /></em><em></em>, by Dr. Robert Cialdini.</p>
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<p>This book is a must for anyone who is serious about influencing or persuading others.  Sales pros, marketers and entrepreneurs should consider it required reading.  In the interview you&#8217;ll hear me share the six powerful keys to influencing people.  Hope you like it.</p>
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<p>By the way, this was my last Krazy Kevin interview for the season.  We will resume again in September 2010.  Thanks for listening.</p>
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		<title>How To Improve Your Spirituality</title>
		<link>http://www.suhailalgosaibi.com/2010/07/11/how-to-improve-your-spirituality/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 12 Jul 2010 05:35:22 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Suhail</dc:creator>
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Welcome to Krazy Kevin interview No. 22!  Today&#8217;s topic is how to improve your spirituality.  You&#8217;ll us hear talking about some spiritual concepts, interspersed by interruptions from Krazy Kevin&#8217;s new vuvuzela!  Enjoy!
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<p>Welcome to Krazy Kevin interview No. 22!  Today&#8217;s topic is <em>how to improve your spirituality</em>.  You&#8217;ll us hear talking about some spiritual concepts, interspersed by interruptions from Krazy Kevin&#8217;s new vuvuzela!  Enjoy!</p>
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		<title>Introducing The First Ever &#8220;Suhail and Alia Show&#8221;!</title>
		<link>http://www.suhailalgosaibi.com/2010/07/07/introducing-the-first-ever-suhail-and-alia-show/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 07 Jul 2010 07:47:46 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Suhail</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[There I was, watching an episode of the internet show &#8220;Random&#8221;, by Kevin Rose and Tim Ferris, when I thought to myself hey, my wife and I could do that! I thought people would be interested to see how we think, and to know some of the topics we&#8217;re interested in.  So I showed Alia [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>There I was, watching an episode of the internet show &#8220;Random&#8221;, by<a href="http://kevinrose.com/" target="_blank"> Kevin Rose</a> and <a href="http://www.fourhourworkweek.com/blog/" target="_blank">Tim Ferris</a>, when I thought to myself <em>hey, <a href="http://aliaalmoayed.wordpress.com/" target="_blank">my wife</a> and I could do that!</em> I thought people would be interested to see how we think, and to know some of the topics we&#8217;re interested in.  So I showed Alia Tim and Kevin&#8217;s show and asked her if she wanted to do an internet TV show like it, and she said &#8220;sure!&#8221;</p>
<p>So on a whim, we brought out the camera and started filming.  The picture quality is not the best, but it will do for now, and will hopefully improve over time.  The name for the show is the &#8220;Suhail and Alia show&#8221; for now, but we need a better one obviously.  Any suggestions would be welcome.</p>
<p>So here&#8217;s the first ever episode.  Hope you like it!  Enjoy!</p>
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		<title>How to Overcome Your Fear of Public Speaking</title>
		<link>http://www.suhailalgosaibi.com/2010/07/05/how-to-overcome-your-fear-of-public-speaking/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 06 Jul 2010 05:28:04 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Suhail</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I&#8217;m sure you must have heard this statistic before, according to an oft mentioned survey, people&#8217;s Number One Fear is public speaking!  This fear came ahead of death and various other nasties.
Personally, I think this factoid is true. For some reason, the thought of public speaking seems to really make people worry, and often times [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div id="attachment_2568" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 482px"><a href="http://www.suhailalgosaibi.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/Public-speaking.jpg"><img class="size-large wp-image-2568" title="Public speaking" src="http://www.suhailalgosaibi.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/Public-speaking-1024x680.jpg" alt="Public speaking can actually be fun when you get over the fear." width="472" height="311" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Public speaking can actually be fun when you get over the fear.</p></div>
<p>I&#8217;m sure you must have heard this statistic before, according to an oft mentioned survey, people&#8217;s Number One Fear is public speaking!  This fear came ahead of death and various other nasties.</p>
<p>Personally, I think this factoid is true. For some reason, the thought of public speaking seems to really make people worry, and often times brings them to a virtual nervous breakdown.  And though I don&#8217;t have this fear anymore, I used to have it in my university days.</p>
<p>I remember when I had my first presentation during my undergraduate years, I was <strong><em>so</em></strong> nervous.  I felt like vomiting.  If memory serves me correctly, it was a Quality Management class.  You could probably hear the nervousness in my voice.</p>
<p>By the time I graduated I did so many presentations that I was actually looking forward to them.  My fear was essentially gone.  Today of course the story is completely different, not only do I enjoy speaking in front of a group, I get a high out of it!  It&#8217;s second nature to me now.</p>
<p>Here are 5 tips to overcome this dreaded fear:</p>
<h3>1) Practice:</h3>
<p>A little obvious I suppose but actually missed by many.  I think one of the things that has made me a good public speaker is the simple act of practicing.  Practice the actual presentation or speech you have to give on your own, and in front of friends and family.  And here&#8217;s an important point, when you make a mistake in your practice session, pretend you did this mistake for real in front of the group.  That way you&#8217;ll have gotten used to reacting to mistakes if you do make one when you give the real presentation.</p>
<h3>2) Visualize:</h3>
<p>Sit down on your own.  Imagine you have a huge cinema screen in front of you, and see yourself giving your speech perfectly.  Imagine as much detail as possible, and make the picture as vivid as possible.  Imagine the audience&#8217;s reaction, and imagine everything going perfectly.  Do this daily for 10 to 20 minutes leading up to the speech.  This is basically exactly as the first point, except that you are practicing in your mind.</p>
<h3>3) Use EFT:</h3>
<p>EFT stands for Emotional Freedom Technique, developed by a guy called <a href="http://www.eftuniverse.com" target="_blank">Gary Graig</a>.  Basically, it&#8217;s a process of tapping on certain pressure points on your body.  EFT is EXTREMELY powerful &#8211; and not just in helping you overcome public speaking, but with many other areas of your life.  Visit the <a href="http://www.eftuniverse.com" target="_blank">EFT website</a> for more info.  You might also consider watching the DVD <a href="http://www.thetappingsolution.com" target="_blank"><em>Try it on Everything</em></a>.</p>
<h3>4) Hypnosis:</h3>
<p>A hypnotherapy session or two could do wonders for you (provided you do it with a good hypnotherapist).  If you don&#8217;t know much about hypnosis, see the blog post I wrote about it <a href="http://www.suhailalgosaibi.com/2009/11/29/the-truth-about-hypnosis-revealed/" target="_blank">here</a> , and listen to the Krazy Kevin interview I did <a href="http://www.suhailalgosaibi.com/2010/05/13/krazy-kevin-learns-about-hypnosis-interview-14/" target="_blank">here</a>.  The most well-known and reputed hypnotherapist in Bahrain is Dr. Leila Edwards, you can see her website <a href="http://www.themakeoverexperience.com/" target="_blank">here</a>.</p>
<h3>5) NLP:</h3>
<p>NLP stands for Neuro Linguistic Programming.  I think NLP is overrated to some degree, but is still powerful in helping overcome certain problems, especially in overcoming fears or phobias.  Read my <a href="http://www.suhailalgosaibi.com/2008/06/29/some-surprising-nlp-secrets/" target="_blank">NLP blog post</a> I wrote a couple of years ago for more about the subject.  Here&#8217;s the <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Neuro-linguistic_programming" target="_blank">Wikipedia explanation</a>.  There are quite a few NLP practitioners in Bahrain, but again the best is probably Dr. Leila mentioned above.</p>
<p>Look, public speaking does not need to be this fearsome monster, don&#8217;t make a bigger deal out of it than it really is.  Also, once  you get good at it it&#8217;s quite enjoyable actually.</p>
<p>Good luck and let me know how you get along.</p>
<p>Talk soon.</p>
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		<title>How To Pointlessly Burn Your Advertising Money</title>
		<link>http://www.suhailalgosaibi.com/2010/06/30/how-to-pointlessly-burn-your-advertising-money/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 01 Jul 2010 05:18:09 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Suhail</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[A few weeks ago I wrote a popular marketing blog post on how to commit small marketing suicide.  In the post I said that a big marketing mistake small business owners make is to copy the advertising of big corporations (also known as big dumb corporations).
A couple of days ago I was reading the British [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A few weeks ago I wrote a popular marketing blog post on how to commit <a href="http://www.suhailalgosaibi.com/2010/06/03/radical-marketing-secrets-how-to-commit-small-business-marketing-suicide/" target="_blank">small marketing suicide</a>.  In the post I said that a big marketing mistake small business owners make is to copy the advertising of big corporations (also known as big dumb corporations).</p>
<p>A couple of days ago I was reading the British business magazine <a href="http://www.managementtoday.co.uk/" target="_blank"><em>Management Today</em></a>, when I came across this Audi advert.</p>
<p><img class="aligncenter size-medium wp-image-2524" title="Audi Advert" src="http://www.suhailalgosaibi.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/06/Audi-Advert--300x196.jpg" alt="Audi Advert" width="300" height="196" /></p>
<p>The advert is a two-page spread with the following copy:</p>
<blockquote><p>Headline: The new Audi A8. No detail is too small.</p>
<p>Body: The sculpted gear lever feels as impressive as it looks.  Its flat paddle design supports your wrist when you&#8217;re writing on the MMI touchpad.  And because the 8 speed transmission is integrated with the sat nav, it selects the right gear for the road ahead.  In short, everything at your fingertips, from the gear you are in, to the music you&#8217;re into.  For more details visit www.audi.co.uk/A8.</p></blockquote>
<p>Needless to say, I don&#8217;t think the advert is very good.  The advertising ROI on the ad must be really low.  A two page spread with only one paragraph of copy?  <em>It&#8217;s crazy!</em> If you&#8217;re going to take two pages, use the whole space for good copy, and work hard on <em><strong>selling</strong></em> your product.  Two whole pages just to show off the gear box?  <em>Really??</em></p>
<p>To emphasise the point I made in the <a href="http://www.suhailalgosaibi.com/2010/06/03/radical-marketing-secrets-how-to-commit-small-business-marketing-suicide/" target="_blank">previous blog</a> post, we small and medium sized business owners should not copy this type of advertising.  The big companies have the financial power, and often the reputation &#8211; but not always &#8211; to do well despite bad marketing.</p>
<h3>A closer look at the ad</h3>
<p>So what&#8217;s wrong with the ad?  Here&#8217;s what I think was done poorly.  First, I don&#8217;t like the headline too much, as it does not portray a benefit.  It does not grab my attention nor does it compel me to read the rest of the copy.  Second, there is way too little copy considering how much space they&#8217;ve used up.  The copy itself is not bad actually. It does a good job of translating features into benefits, which many car adverts don&#8217;t do.  Here&#8217;s a more detailed analysis:</p>
<p>- &#8220;The sculpted gear lever (feature) feels as impressive (benefit- and a kinesthetic one at that)…&#8221;</p>
<p>- &#8220;Its flat paddle design (feature) supports your wrist (benefit) when you&#8217;re writing on the MMI touchpad (feature)&#8221;</p>
<p>- Good use of the word &#8220;because&#8221;, a powerful hypnotic word.  For more on this see my article on <a href="http://www.suhailalgosaibi.com/2010/01/12/persuasion-and-manipulation-secrets-of-the-masters-how-to-get-anyone-to-do-what-you-want/" target="_blank">persuasion secrets</a>.</p>
<p>- &#8220;The 8 speed transmission is integrated with the sat nav (feature), it selects the right gear for the road ahead (benefit, but more a feature).</p>
<p>-  &#8220;Everything at your fingertips (benefit), from the gear you are in (feature), to the music you&#8217;re into (benefit)&#8221;</p>
<p>Like I said, the copy is good, but not enough of it.  Also, there is no offer.  Why should I visit the site?  Imagine your prospect sitting comfortably on his sofa, tired after a long hard day at the office, enjoying his afternoon tea.  You need to give him a compelling reason to get off his back side, walk to his laptop or desktop (assuming he doesn&#8217;t have an iPad or other wireless device next to him) and checkout your website.  A free offer of some sort maybe, or a gift voucher. <em>Something!</em></p>
<p>Also, if I had been given this ad to write, I&#8217;d have made the photo much smaller, and used much more benefit-oriented copy.  Giving the gear so much attention is just pointless.  It exemplifies what is wrong with the advertising industry today, where the graphic designer is given more importance than the copywriter.  A problem recognised by the great advertising king himself David Ogilvey (one of my advertising heros) over 40 years ago.</p>
<p>Furthermore (wow, I actually used the word &#8220;furthermore&#8221;) surely an ad for a car as great as the A8 should actually <em>show the car! </em> It&#8217;s a beautiful car, and the ad does not do it justice at all.  I&#8217;d show the car in the main photo, and mention the gear lever in the copy, maybe with a smaller photo and a caption.</p>
<p>So, remember my friend you need to SELL in your ads, not show off and display photos, otherwise you&#8217;ll be pointlessly wasting your advertising money.  There is a saying among direct-response copy writers: &#8220;white space never sold anything&#8221;, meaning that every available space in the ad should be used to sell the product.  For more explanations on the basics of selling listen to my radio interview entitled <a href="http://www.suhailalgosaibi.com/2010/06/24/how-to-sell-anything-to-anyone/" target="_blank"><em>How to Sell Anything to Anyone</em></a>.</p>
<p>To get loads of FREE marketing and entrepreneurial advice, visit <a href="http://www.radicalmarketing.com/" target="_blank">RadicalMarketing.com</a>.</p>
<p>Thanks for taking the time to read this and talk to you soon.</p>
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		<title>How to Communicate Effectively and Establish Rapport</title>
		<link>http://www.suhailalgosaibi.com/2010/06/30/how-to-communicate-effectively-and-establish-rapport/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 30 Jun 2010 13:30:19 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Suhail</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Here&#8217;s a short segment of the communication with NLP workshop I conducted during our last Falak Big Bang.  I thought you might find of of value.  Hope you like it:







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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Here&#8217;s a short segment of the communication with NLP workshop I conducted during our last <a href="http://www.suhailalgosaibi.com/2010/05/13/the-falak-big-bang-video/" target="_blank">Falak Big Bang</a>.  I thought you might find of of value.  Hope you like it:</p>
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